How I Feel About Ellen's Age

I know it might be an inappropriate topic, but it does come up online.  What can I do?  I can do 1 thing or another, no in between.

I used to think Ellen was born in even as late as the 1980s if I didn't realize that's when I was born.  That's a lot like the issue I have with going out with my mom.  They all still think she is my sister.

I know that Ellen is a different generation of parents and for some reason it too special in that way too to have anything to do with me.

I am sad she is not like 40.  Instead, she is almost 60.  It seems she is less a part of me being 60 than 40.  60 must be a scary age, but I have close family older than her, as well..

Think of the people born in 1970.  They are the same now as when they were 13 in the 1980s!  Those people seem like real people who watched and made the younger of us feel calm in the world.